OPEN LETTER TO MY MYSELF👑💖🥰

Dear Dipsy💖

I am so proud of you girl, life hasn’t been easy for you but you have managed to keep your head up and continue fighting throughout. You are a very strong woman to have endured it all with so much grace and always come out on the winning end. Even though the world has tried to break you, you never let it🙏🏾💖🥰

Be proud of what you’ve become and the woman that you are but most importantly be proud of everything you have gone through. Everything happens for a reason and God has a greater purpose for each of our journeys. Give yourself grace and stop being so hard on yourself. One day everything will make sense, and you will understand why you had to go through all that you’ve gone through. All the pain, hurt, betrayals, disappointments, rejections, and frustrations will all be worth it. Always remember that everything happens for a reason, you might not understand it now, but you will one day. You are exactly where you are meant to be right now, breathe, be patient, and trust the process of your life journey. Let go of all the expectations you have created in your head, accept your reality and life for what it is and learn from each experience🙏🏾💖

 Not everything is about you, don’t take everything personal because sometimes it’s about the other person. When people disappoint, betray and hurt you, be a bigger person forgive them and don’t hold grudges, learn from their mistakes and yours because everything that is done to us is so to teach us a lesson and help us grow from the experience. Try and understand that appearances can be deceiving and that things may not always be what they seem.

 Love and accept yourself the way you are, flaws and all because you are perfect just the way you are. Accept everything about you that makes you different and embrace being unique. There’s so much beauty in your brokenness; your pain is what makes it all beautiful because it is through that pain that you gain the strength to overcome everything that has tried to tear you down. You’re an overcomer, a warrior, a queen not a victim because you survived the worst, you stay in the fight until the final round, you never back down and always face the challenges head on.

Focus on building and creating a positive and meaningful future for yourself that you are going to be proud of and setting personal goals because it is what you need to reshape and rebuild a successful future that you want for yourself. Never let anyone get in the way of your dreams and goals anymore and most importantly “DREAM BIG” and never ever give up on your dreams. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and your dreams, people who are going to encourage and inspire you🙏🏾💖

Your new beginnings journey starts with you, you have to really like you actually love you first, embrace all your flaws and all your imperfections. Make the most of your new life, you deserve to be happy, you deserve the world and even more. Do not depend on others for your happiness because your happiness is a personal choice, create your own happiness and have fun in the process💕🎉🥂💃🏽🥰

 You are a beautiful, smart, intelligent and gracious woman, you are enough, you are the queen that you think you are. Don’t think much about men, there is so much to you than being someone’s girlfriend, wife or side chick actually there’s so much more to life than a man. Love yourself completely before you try to love another person and be patient while you’re still waiting for love, just because you have not found love yet, it does not mean you are not lovable and don’t deserve to be loved. Keep your head up because when you eventually find love, it will be all that you’ve longed and wanted, God is listening and is working behind the scenes to ensure you find the right kind of love💖

Be kind, be a blessing, always lend a helping hand, and be selfless. Be to others what you would like them to be to you. Remember always that not everyone you meet is meant to stay in your life forever, people will leave, love will fade, you will get disappointed but also you will leave others as well. Through all this all you can do is learn to appreciate the people who left, betrayed and disappointed you for the lessons they have taught you. Thank the people who have stayed because they fill those spaces of the people who left.

Be the woman coming out of her shell, a woman who contrary to the belief is single and having the time her life, a woman who is more in love with her life than she ever has been before💕🎉🥂💃🏽🥰 a woman who is building her career, a woman who is accomplishing her goals. A woman who is traveling the world, a woman who is discovering things about herself that she loves while shedding old layers of herself, a woman who is unlearning old bad habits while practicing new and healthy ones. A woman who is embracing her me time and thriving. A woman who is healing, elevating and have self-respect, a woman who is learning that it’s okay to be alone, a woman trying to be kinder to herself and giving herself more grace🙏🏾💖 be that woman who is moving on and is glowing with someone who actually sees your worth, hears you, respects you and sees you. A woman who stopped begging for the bare minimum, a woman who is taking her superpower back and is walking in her full power💖💃🏽🥰 A woman who is out there to win no matter how hard it is, a woman who is strong, a woman who stands tall, a woman who is more beautiful than ever, a woman who draws her strength from the Lord and never ever gives up🙏🏾💖

 Love like you never seen pain before. And if you do not find the strength to do so, just make sure you find enough love for yourself. Because, after all is said and done, all you are guaranteed is yourself, never forget that. Learn to gracefully let go of the things and people that are not meant for you, accept things the way they are, adjust your focus especially when life gets blurry. Celebrate and thank your past as it has shaped you into the strong beautiful queen👑 you are today. 

Thank you for staying the course and never giving up and for being so resilient, for being so determined and for being so strong. With your story you inspire other women walking the same journey and you lift them up. Appreciate your journey and be grateful for the lessons learned because here you stand today no longer silent, but loud and proud! And this time, it’s not just for you; it’s for your girls and every woman who has ever felt voiceless because despite everything, you walked out not broken but a queen👑

Know that this journey is not about where you've been but it’s about where you’re trying to go and by the time you get there, the world will know that you stayed through the darkest hours, only through hope, love and believing that you can do this pulled you through even when all the odds were against you.  God saw you through the pain, the hurt, the betrayal and the disappointments, you’re still standing and smiling, now that’s strength and resilience of a warrior and an overcomer.

Be that woman my queen👑 and even more, make them wonder how you do it. Dipsy you my queen👑 deserve the world, now go kick ass and go get what you deserve Tshetlhana ya ko ga Mfikoe, Tlou setlogolo sa Bakwena Ba Mogopa le Bakgatlha! 💖🎉🥂💃🏽🥰

 My journey continues and I strive to move towards a happier and more fulfilling life🥂💃🏽🥰 I’m Just A Small Girl With A Big God🙏🏽💕 Mercy Rewrote My Life🙏🏽💕Grace Has Located Me🙏🏽💕 I Am An Overcomer🙏🏾💕A Very Beautiful Story❤️ Live in the moment, Laugh harder, Love deeply & Celebrate more💕🎉🥂💃🏽🥰

 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks - Proverbs 31:16-17🙏🏾🙏🏾

Love & Light

Dipsy💚