1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY
It has been exactly 1 year and 3 days since I have started the blog sharing my story. As I reflect on this journey, I’m filled with gratitude—what started as simply sharing my story has become a powerful beacon of hope for countless women walking the same path. Through every challenge, I healed, grew stronger, reclaimed my power, and embraced my true self. It hasn’t been easy — this past year was an emotional, physical, and spiritual rollercoaster — but I faced it head-on and came out unstoppable, every twist and turn was worth it.
Through it all, I’ve learned that time truly does heal, and things do get better. Forgiveness is a journey—one I’m walking step by step. It’s not easy, but every day I choose to forgive those who caused me pain, those who hurt and betrayed me, and most importantly, I’m learning to forgive myself. Though the wounds run deep, my heart is opening to healing. Bit by bit, heartbreak and anger are giving way to acceptance and a powerful new independence. From the heartbreak of my marriage ending to the hope of a new beginning, this blog celebrates and shines a light on the incredible people and moments that only emerge when we embrace change.
I’m in awe of God’s goodness—To Him be all the glory! ππ½✝️ He hasn’t just given me strength; He’s given me a voice to shine His name through my story (Matthew 5:16). I’m singing a new song of praise because God hasn’t just carried me—He’s held my hand every step of the way. God is the God of second chances, and He’s given me a fresh start. Now, I’m using my strength, power, and might to inspire, encourage, and heal women walking the same path. Now, I’m using the strength and power He’s given me to uplift, inspire, and heal others walking similar journeys. My story shows that pain can ignite powerful transformation and letting go is not losing—it’s creating space for greater things to come. Today, I stand as a testament that struggles build resilience, pain fuels purpose, and setbacks can lead to miracles. Guided by God’s grace and mercy, I live by the promise: “Let go of what you thought it should be and be grateful for what it is.”
It’s been quite the stormy journey, but here I am—still standing and ready for what’s next. Things might look a little different now; this past year brought a lot of change. Some people shifted, some stayed true, and my whole perspective got a bit of a makeover. Some friends and family ties didn’t make it through the storm, and the kids have felt the ups and downs too. Focus? It’s definitely been a challenge. And me? I’m not the same woman I was a year ago— and that’s more than okay, it’s exactly what I needed. Change isn’t always neat or pretty, but I’m welcoming every twist and turn with open arms. Here’s to embracing the mess and the magic of becoming!
The blog has been met with such warmth and positivity—your incredible response has truly touched my heart. It’s clear that God is right here with me, turning every step into something good and meaningful. Where do I even begin? On Saturday, May 10th 2025, God showed up in a mighty way and made His power known as I launched the blog. Thanking God Almighty for a successful and beautiful launch! YES, I AM THAT ROSE THAT GREW FROM CONCRETE! When God moves, miracles happen. He is the God of restoration, and His promise in Joel 2:25-26 reminds us of that. What began as pain has ignited a powerful movement of faith, healing, and relentless hope. Just like Isaiah 43:19 promises, God is doing something new in my life—making a way where there seemed to be no way, turning deserts into rivers, and opening doors I never saw coming. This isn’t just a new chapter—it’s a powerful breakthrough, and it’s proof that no matter your struggle, transformation is possible. Now, I challenge myself to step into my own new thing. I embrace the change, trust the process, and watch how God is moving mountains in my life. My breakthrough is waiting—and I’m loudly shouting, “Why not me?” ππ½✝️
Gratitude is the key that unlocks my heart to life’s blessings, and I’m endlessly thankful to each of you. You’ve been my rays of sunshine on the darkest days with your support and words of encouragement, turning tears into smiles and reminding me of the strength and determination I carry within. I’m deeply grateful for every one of you and the unique role you’ve played in my healing journey. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for holding my hand and walking beside me every step of the way. I’ve found my peace and I’m content with how my life is unfolding and it’s all because of you all that believe in me and this blog. KE A LEBOGA!ππ½ππ₯°
My journey continues and I strive to move towards a happier and more fulfilling lifeπ₯ππ½π₯° I’m Just A Small Girl With A Big Godππ½π Mercy Rewrote My Lifeππ½π Mercy Said Noππ½π Grace Has Located Meππ½π I Am An OvercomerππΎπA Very Beautiful Story❤️ Live in the moment, Laugh harder, Loveπ deeply & Celebrate moreπππ₯ππ½π₯°
Through the Lord's mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness - Lamentations 3:22-23ππΎππΎ
Love & Light
Dipsyπ



This has been quite a journey, I'm so proud of you girla for being so vulnerable and sharing your story with us. Your story has been inspiring especially for us who are still living the nightmare but are not brave enough to walk away. Keep writing and shining girla because you are definitely inspiring and giving us hope that our breakthrough will comeππ½π
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for these words. This journey has not been easy, but God has been faithful through it all. If my story brings even a little hope or courage to someone who is still finding their way, then I’m deeply grateful. Please know that your breakthrough will come in God’s perfect timing, He sees you, He knows your pain, and He has not forgotten you. I’ll continue to share, to shine, and to trust Him, with a heart full of gratitude and faith ππ½π
DeleteNgwanesho, this is a beautiful testament of God's goodness in your life. When the devil wants to harm you, God will protect you and use it for your good. In His presence there's fullness of joy, this is your time and season for joy my sisterππ½πππ₯ππ½π₯°
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DeleteSoldier on Sister in Love. Amen π
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DeleteWhen is the next empowering eventπ?
ReplyDeleteDips, all i can say is I'm proud of you girlπ
ReplyDeleteThank you so muchπ
DeleteBe rest assured makhi,God is utilizing you for something great.We are inspired and of course proud of you.
ReplyDeleteAmen Makhi and thank you so much π
DeleteYour mess is someone's message.
ReplyDeleteRomans 8:37 NKJV
[37] Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.
https://bible.com/bible/114/rom.8.37.NKJV
Amenπ
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